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In zwei vergangenen Beitr\u00e4gen<\/a> haben wir bereits \u00fcber Tim Challies<\/a>, Autor des Buches \u201eSexual Detox<\/a>\u201c, und ein paar der gro\u00dfen L\u00fcgen in puncto Pornografie gesprochen. Hier geht es weiter mit L\u00fcge Nr. 3.<\/p>\n

L\u00fcge Nr. 3: „Mein kleines Geheimnis“<\/h2>\n

Die dritte L\u00fcge der Pornografie ist, dass sie eine geheime S\u00fcnde ist. Du k\u00f6nntest versucht sein zu glauben, dass das, was du in der Privatsph\u00e4re deines eigenen Schlafzimmers machst, niemanden au\u00dfer dich etwas angeht. Du bist der oder die einzige, der dar\u00fcber Bescheid wei\u00df und auch je davon erfahren wird, richtig?<\/p>\n

Falsch gedacht. Leider ist die S\u00fcnde ist in dieser Hinsicht ziemlich hinterh\u00e4ltig. Sie findet dich \u00fcberall und liebt es, dir vorzugaukeln, dass du die Situation im Griff hast. Du denkst, dass du sie kontrollieren kannst, dass du nur bis zu einem bestimmten Punkt gehen und dann aufh\u00f6ren kannst, dass du nur soundso oft hinfallen und dann einfach wieder damit aufh\u00f6ren kannst. Aber das ist einfach nicht das Wesen der S\u00fcnde. Sie ist viel mehr zutiefst zerst\u00f6rerisch und zwar sowohl in Bezug auf dich selbst – deinen K\u00f6rper, deine Seele und deinen Geist – als auch im Hinblick auf deine Beziehungen.<\/p>\n

Ans Licht kommen und frei werden<\/h2>\n

Die L\u00fcge steckt in der Annahme, all das sei nur dein eigenes kleines Geheimnis. Aber mach dir nichts vor: Irgendwann wird dich jemand erwischen, wird vielleicht deinen Verlauf am Computer entdecken oder deine Kreditkartenabrechnung finden. Komm selbst dieser Blo\u00dfstellung zuvor, gestehe dir deine Fehler ein, lass die Dunkelheit hinter dir und werde frei.<\/p>\n

Love Is More<\/a> m\u00f6chte dich auf diesem Weg begleiten. Auf unserer Website findest zu zahlreiche Zeugnisse<\/a> und Beitr\u00e4ge <\/a>zum Thema sowie Links zu Selbsthilfegruppen<\/a>, Beratungsstellen<\/a> und einen kostenlosen Onlinekurs<\/a>. Unsere Blogbeitr\u00e4ge zu L\u00fcge Nr. 1 und L\u00fcge Nr. 2 gibt es hier<\/a> und hier<\/a>. L\u00fcge Nr. 4 folgt in K\u00fcrze!<\/p>\n

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\u00dcbersetzung: Frank Sch\u00f6nbach<\/em><\/p>\n

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Die dritte L\u00fcge der Pornografie ist, dass sie eine geheime S\u00fcnde ist. Du bist der einzige, der davon wei\u00df und auch je davon erfahren wird, richtig?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":8430,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[177],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-hilfe-bei-abhaengigkeit"],"yoast_head":"\nPornografie und L\u00fcge Nr. 3 - Dein kleines Geheimnis?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"In zwei vergangenen Beitr\u00e4gen haben wir bereits \u00fcber zwei L\u00fcgen in puncto Pornografie gesprochen. 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